As we continue our study of Mark, this Sunday we’ll dive into Mark 10:1-12, a passage that addresses one of the most challenging and relevant topics in discipleship: marriage and divorce. Building on last week’s message from the end of chapter 9, where Jesus called for radical action against sin and stumbling blocks, chapter 10 explores what denying ourselves and taking up our cross looks like in everyday areas of life, the first of which is marraige.
As Jesus moves toward Jerusalem to die (He will enter the city in Chapter 11), He is confronted again by the Pharisees. As they have done before, they test Jesus with a controversial question. The question of what constitutes grounds for divorce was a broiling controversy among schools of Rabbi’s in the day, and as Jesus enters Judea, He is now in Herod’s territory (the same Herod that imprisoned and executed John the Baptist for denouncing His divorce and remarriage.) The Pharisees were seeking to trap Jesus and place Him at odds with the ongoing controversy. Jesus responds to the permissability of divorce by pointing back to God’s original design and purpose for marriage, emphasizing its sacred covenant nature. Jesus explains that Moses’ allowance for divorce was a concession due to human sin and hardness of heart, intended to limit abuse and protect the vulnerable, not to undermine God’s intent for marriage. Going back to creation in Genesis, Jesus highlights God’s plan for marriage as a lifelong covenant where a man and woman become one flesh, joined by God Himself. This union is instituted by God and reflects deeper gospel truths. In private, the disciples question Jesus further, and He applies the principle radically: Divorce and remarriage constitute adultery because the one-flesh union endures unless dissolved by God. We’ll touch on biblical exceptions (like sexual immorality and abandonment) and talk about why none are mentioned here in Mark. My prayer is that we affirm God’s grace, forgiveness, and the value of seeking help in difficult situations, without compromising Jesus’ words in Mark 10:1-12. While the teaching is direct and countercultural—both then and now—it’s rooted in God’s good design and offers hope through the gospel, which forgives, heals, and transforms.
The Controversial Question (vv. 1-2)
The Purpose of Moses’ Rule (vv. 3-5)
The Purpose of God’s Design (vv. 6-9
The Radical Application (vv. 10-12)